Thursday, June 19, 2008

Communication across distance, being “Crafty, and Linda’s Present

Today, I focused on writing postcards, which means I got seven done. Before you turn off let me explain what post, what mail is to me: Post is an attempt to communicate feelings, emotions, and a message wrapped up in a tactile and visual experience across long distances and different times. It is why I am very particular, in how I send a post card, so I wanted to explain a bit of that process to you, because for me, it is now, the major creative way I express myself to individuals (well, I do BLOG too!).

As an aside, I just came from boxing where one of my old sparring partners improved his inside game to the level that he split my lip (just a little) but I kept trying to stop his heart with twisting punches into the ribs, so that’s fair. I guess that is a form of communication too, but more of a game. I was raised from my hospital bed and virtually pushed there because with two week without boxing, my physical health regarding circulation and respiration were declining. So that is done (sorry, no pictures of me doing the 75-80 sit ups and endless minutes of shadow boxing).

Just in case you hadn’t noticed, I tend, when it comes to gifts, to try and be specifically particular, no knick-knack and no “whatever” but a gift that matches the person’s secret desires as close as possible. That is why even in Japan, I didn’t just go, “Yeah, I’ll take 50 of this postcard” but actually tried picking up the “right” postcards for specific people in each city. Now ALL but one of those postcards from Japan are gone. So over the last several weeks I have gone on the internet and bought postcards, stickers, woodblocks and other treats from Japan, from New Zealand, from Canada and America.

It takes me about 30 minutes to do a postcard, so I worked for over three hours today. The main reason is that a) I have an exact process I will explain and b) I am CRIP….things GO SLOW! Sorry, I mean I have limited hand function. So if anyone worries that I will escalate into hand made cards from me, that isn’t happening (can’t happen), I am doing the best I can with what I can, using my forefingers, thumbs and teeth mostly. First I need to find the “right” card which means picking someone from the list who hasn’t gotten a card recently and then finding their email/s to find out what type of person they are. Some people just put basically, “Please send me a card: Address” and I still analyze the message to determine, “polite salutation?”, might like something more artistic, “brief and to the point?”, how about a single artist or image? And if I am left with nothing, I make a card that I would like to get. But if I have info, then I read the email/s a few times while going through the cards (about 40-60 on a particular day) to find the one that seems a good fit. Someone asked to be introduced to anime, so this card with a few NICE anime girls seemed a good way to start.
While If someone else talked about the Japan trip and how much they enjoyed reading about it, I try to find a Japanese card or Japanese woodblock card so they can feel they had a piece of that trip. Then on the other side I put on the label (whited out on here for privacy along with messages) and then the “extras.” Since I want to make a card that people and look at more than once, a sort of ‘experience’ which has more than just a message (thought I work hard on that too).

So here we have a Post Card from Japan, which means it has the stamp on the opposite side, and the writing below (I whited this out badly on photoshop, your card looks better than this, trust me!). I used two wood blocks and Hello Kitty to complete the Japanese Experience. Seriously, what kind of Japan Experience would there be without Hello Kitty saying (as she is here) “Come hula with me!” (oooh that temptress!). Now, I looked at over a dozen companies which make wood blocks but in the end only one passed my quality needs, which was enough white space to make a clear and artistic picture as well as sharp artistry within the wood block without too much extra lines and clutter. So I have a few blocks that I use. I have to be careful of spasms when pressing and use a backing paper when I make the image but as you can see, I put too much ink on the red Kanji here so messed that one up a bit (SORRY!).

While on another card I wanted to give a “summer” feel of fun and inclusion; so the tall grass/wheat stamp combine with the Hello Kitty picnic and people sharing a summer tree branch. It is to ‘set the mood’ (I know, you probably think I am a) not medicated enough or b) too obsessed). But these are my way of reaching out to people on four continents, and I want my message to get through (which is usually, “I care, I think you are cool, thanks for reading the blog, I hope you have a great day!” – I don’t write all that but that is the general first message I try to send).

Now for different people you need different cards, something about the wonder of travel or the love of learning or just a feeling will mean I send out an antique map card: Paris in this case. The message is that wonder still exists in the world, and it will come to your door if you let it. (By the way, if you WANT a postcard just email me with the title POSTCARD to mpshiel at hotmail.com).

This person mentioned that they have an interest in the goth so I tried to give them a goth, and goth-loli extravaganza. I search through the anime and other stickers I have to find something that will make them take a second and maybe a third look. I put the Heron in there because, well, I wanted a bit of mystery, of the floating world, which in a way the goth world is.

So that is what I do, or did today (and for an hour or two a day, every day I can). But you can see that doing cards for the 90 addresses I currently have on list will take a BIT of time, though sometimes I get help and can do a card in 20 minutes but generally 25-30 minutes (On Sunday I did 11!). Because see, I hand write the cards too, only I can’t actually use my hand to write, I put the pen between thumb and two first fingers and then use my shoulder muscles to move the pen, and that takes a lot longer (LOT!). I am not telling you this to give anyone the guilts, I am saying this because I want you to understand how much I WANT make you happy. That postcard time is the time when I get to dream about where this card goes, and maybe how it will be received. And, yeah, last week, I spent my income for two weeks to get wood blocks of just the RIGHT quality and certain stickers and the RIGHT postcards. I HAD to buy them because seeing them I was already plotting in my mind who would like this, who would be getting that card along with THIS sticker and how I am going to put this wood block print with it…. It makes me happy.

I was going to say, if you do something like this, like quilting or sewing or anything “Crafty” or creative, and want to share it in the comments, I would like that. Some people’s craft I have already seen like Tayi’s skull knitted addition to my cold pack (ACK – no picture….next time!). And Sharon’s little book. I want to do a post of all the amazing stuff I have received over the last few months. But I am also curious why, what do you get out of it? For me, yeah, it leaves me exhausted and I get to roll to the post office and there goes another three or two or five or today SEVEN little messages, weaving through time and space to bring, I hope more than an idle glance (but that isn’t up to me to decide, I just make them). So exhausting at the end of the day but WORTH it.

To finish, we today picked up the framing job of the washi block print that we got in Kyoto in THE paper shop. I got it framed from the best custom framer in town for Linda as a birthday present and everyone including the framer and owner agreed that the frame is perfect. The gold of it doesn’t come through as this was a hasty picture on our couch but it is a hand painted frame of genuine gold (Linda did have good taste…expensive but good taste). We are looking forward to hanging it, a reminder, the stream of flying heron, and the cherry blossoms of forever spring, forever Dai Boken 2008.

23 comments:

SharonMV said...

Dear Beth,

Linda's present looks beautiful. i love the wood block prints. What kind of ink are you using?

I understand how you feel about the postcards. When I first started making cards, I thought about how it was such a great craft, because cards are a means of communication. You get to combine artful expression with communicating. When I made cards for friends & family, I always thought about each person as I was designing & making the card. Sometimes I mad a different, individual Christmas card for every one on my list. And I often sent card to people in my online needle working groups - some I knew fairly well & some i knew only a little. I tied to make something they would like. At times, I sent cards their relatives who were sick. Then I tried to send something beautiful, something to show that I cared about them. Once I got a wonderful letter from an acquaintance's mother. she was ill with breast cancer & yet took the time to write & thank me for the handmade card & bookmark i had sent her.

Now to more mundane thoughts. It is way TOO HOT here. We are having a heat wave and our air conditioner is being a bit temperamental. And I am having a fever,respiratory infection & Lupus flare. This was supposed to be my week off from medical appointments, but I ended up having to go to the dentist (a crown fell off). Then when I went to my doctor's office for a nurse appointment (to get antibiotic & anti-inflammatory injections), I had to wait over an hour in the heat. Earlier this week I called to leave a message with my rheumatologist to leave a message regarding my severe joint pain. I was transferred to his assistant, got the voice mail & found out that their "turnaround time" to return calls was from 48 to 72 hours! I wonder if that means I'll be getting a call on Saturday.

So don't worry if I don't post or post only briefly in the next couple of days. I'm doing OK, probably, just dealing with these assorted annoyances or trying to stay cool.

Sharon

yanub said...

Ah, I don't think anyone could ever make giving postcards into the art you have turned it into. What you describe is like a Japanese tea ceremony, with so much consideration, contemplation, and attention to form. And you do it nearly every day! It's like some great performance art piece, and we all are both audience and part of the art. It's so very cool.

And so is Linda's birthday gift. It is fantastically beautiful in its frame. And, like your postcard mission, the choice of the gift reflects your capacity to turn small things into celebrations.

Zephyr said...

Ha ha, you always send me anime chicks with big boobs...do you really think I'm that one-dimensional?

:P Just kidding, I love the girls, and their, um, girls. The first one is built like my ex-girlfriend. Some girls should not be allowed to wear corsets.

abi said...

I got your postcard yesterday evening - thank you! It arrived a lot more quickly than I expected, and was very exciting! It also suddenly hit me what I must make for you.

I find it a little funny (as in it makes me smile a little) that you describe the satisfaction you get from finding just the right gift/postcard for the right person, then wonder why people enjoy giving gifts to you. This gifts for people thing is very satisfying when you get it right, and it's not just you who gets that satisfaction.

Personally, when I make gifts for people, I find it very draining. I start off with big ideas, but then it's a struggle to get everything made in time and packaged. I spent several evenings before Christmas just wrapping soap (I had no idea anything so mundane that I chose to do, voluntarily, could take so very, very long), and Easter eggs take ages! At the end of the day, though, people appreciate it when you get it right, and they appreciate the effort you put in to it, as well. They don't necessarily know how much effort it actually took, though!

We all appreciate the time, effort, thought and inspiration that goes into the postcards you send - thank you for brightening up our days!

Neil said...

Wow! Linda's print is gorgeous.

It pleases me to think I understand why you're celebrating life, Beth and I approve of and applaud you for it. Friendship and love are the most important things we can have. Sending postcards is a very nice way to express friendship, and Yanub's right: you are turning it into an art form.

I read in one forum that someone had sent out handmade Christmas cards, and got a reply expressing pity that she couldn't afford to buy cards that year. That'd be a good slap in the face, eh? Or worth one. :)

By the way, dear Beth, you asked about spiders a while back; I love spiders, when they're in the wild. I've watched them build their webs, wait for endless hours for something to blunder into the web, and once I saw a bluebottle fly into a web and the spider's response: a leap to its lunch. I do not, however, like spiders in my shoes.

Today is summer solstice day. It would be time to dance (naked?) around a tree, but we don't have oaks here, and the stupid elms are riddled with canker worms that are descending in plagues. *SHUDDER*


Linda: another, belted, happy birthday dear lady! thank you for sharingthe washi block print with us; you DO have good taste, but we knew that, since we know who you married!!!

Love and zen hugs to both of you!
Neil

Gaina said...

Wow, the picture looks perfect in that frame! :D

If you are after nice stamps and don't mind buying online from england The English Stamp Company do very high quality ones, and can also provide a customised stamp service. I just went on the website and they have a new oriental range!

cheryl g said...

Wow Sis, the framing job turned out absolutely perfect. The print is even more beautiful than before.

(Note to self: bring stud finder on next visit.)

What crafts do I do? I have a quilt I've been working on for 16 years. I make collages. I do beading. I cross-stitch. However, the thing I work on the most is driftwood carving.

Lene Andersen said...

The frame is gorgeous (as is the print) I love what you're doing with the postcards - they're little works of art.

I used to knit and it was like creating a spell of love, knitting good wishes into every stitch. Can't knit anymore and really, really miss it.

These days, I use writing and photography for the same thing, but it rarely feels magical in the same way. Perhaps it will eventually.

Carapace said...

Thanks for showing more about your postcardy method. To rant a bit: I don't care much for the card tradition as exemplified by Hallmark. Random sloppy art and a line of preprinted text rank right up there with anonymous internet petitions on the human contact scale. But your little mini-collages, handwritten (and I think handwriting is a form of art, too)and Hello Kittified? They put me in mind of the Griffin and Sabine books, or personal museums from the Industrial Age. They're the sort of art that only works given freely. That's a present, a thing to go in my memory chest or on the wall.
If I can align my elbow today, I hope to return the favor a bit. How you manage your wayward appendages, I would very much like to know.

Veralidaine said...

You are probably going to order 10 lashes with a wet noodle for my limited understanding of Japanese culture as well as for comparing you to this story with no happy ending, but your 997 postcard quest keeps reminding me of a children's book I read to my niece when she was tiny. I don't remember the name, but it is about a little girl who was irradiated by the atomic bomb in Japan and has radiation sickness, so she wants to fold 1,000 paper cranes and believes after she does that she will get to make a wish and will get well. She doesn't make it to 1,000 before she dies. Very very sad story.

Anyway of course I want you to make it to your goal unlike the girl in the story, but the doing 997 postcards reminded me of 1,000 cranes.

About craftiness-- I do needlepoint sometimes but have trouble actually committing long enough to finish a peace. And I used to make hemp jewelry.

cheryl g said...

I realized I need to answer the second part of your question...

What do I get out of it? It allows me to tap into my creative side. My job is bureacracy and data entry essentially and I do miss the creative outlet doing campfire talks and leading hikes gave me. My crafts fill that place in me - I can create.

I find doing crafts is also relaxing and contemplative. I love watching what I am making take shape and get a sense of true accomplishment when the project is complete.

Since I make things to give to others I also get the joy of knowing that my creation will make another person happy.

Judith said...

I love my postcard v. much. It amazes me that it is made of wood and it smells of wood too. And the tree it came from grew in another country and who knows what happened where it grew? The thought that you put into what you do makes it art - true communication.
I like scrapbooking and making cards and knitting but I am fairly average at all these things. This used to bother me because I imagine that I will be briliant and then I'm not. But now I enjoy the process too much to get angsty about the finished product. I get caught up in colours and textures. I wear black and grey and sage green but I want to look at yellow and orange and red and gold and purple. I have visual dyslexia and glare bothers me so I end up feeling nauseous - but I love colour so its worth it!
I am making and writing you a card this very weekend but goodness knows how it will turn out!

Dawn Allenbach said...

I like that you gave a description of your postcard process because a) it gives all of us more insight into the process for you, and b) it gives us more insight into your mental process.

Like how I cleverly copied your style with the a's and b's? *grin* I'm feeling a bit goofy today.

Thank you for leaving your address on one of the pictured postcards. I can send along one of your presents now. I need to make the other one before sending it. As I think about yet another gift -- are you doing much reading lately? I don't want to make something you won't use. Does Linda get much time to read?

Linda's prezzie looks amazing, even without the full effect of the gold.

Victor Kellar said...

The print looks stunning, I can't imagine how great it must be in real life.

I love how you are turning something that can me so pedestrian (sending postcards) into something that is thoughtful and artful, your work is much a appreciated.

I so NOT crafty. I can't cut a straight edge .. with a straight edge Nor am I handy in a manly sort of way. Collette does all the plumbing around here.

But I can cook. When I was still a chef I started doing "hobbit birtdays" throwing elqoquent little dinner parties for my freinds on my birthday, making cream soups from scratch, spending time creating just the right sauces to go with the savouries. And I have my video. I routinely make slideshows/photo montages for people as tributes and thank you. In a week I'll be doing another wedding video for another nephew, as my gift to him.

I put a lot of time and effort into these videos but I really admire the people who can use their hands to make something unique and heartfelt and wonderful for those for whom they care

Miss 376 said...

No one could fail to appreciate the time anand effort and the thought that goes into these cards. I thnk for all of us that make things for other people, it is all done for the joy it gives them

rachelcreative said...

Wow. Now I am thinking I should really be putting more effort into the cards I send people ;o)

Thanks for sharing the process and what it means to you.

Receiving your postcards gave me those 5 minutes of pleasure and knowing you cared. And that feeling lasted. I'm still getting little bursts of glowing happiness thinking about them.

This was before knowing how the message you were sending was intended to be just like that.

An utter success Beth!

Maggie said...

It was good to talk to you yesterday. I'm serious. You are not cutting my grass.
I really enjoyed my postcard. Mucha is one of my favorite artists! I also like the fact that you included Sparky in the picture too! I should give you his address so you can send him one as well.
As for my creative side...I quilt, sew, I dable in scrapbooking, and I'm learning how to knit/crochet. I have also been known to refinish/paint furniture but I lack the facilities to do that here. Why do I do all of this? After the stress of work which can involve some pretty ugly things, low speed quiet is just what I need.

Neil said...

Hello, you twisted soul:

Saskatchewan is NOT responsible for how you turned out, dear. That would be the work of the demon Hello Kitty. Or maybe it was Los Angeles.

Yes, Beth, I got your card today; the wood blocks are beautiful. And the card is beautiful too. Just like you and Linda.

The bicycle has not deigned to carry anything out of the ordinary lately. And the poi send their love.

Linda: that should be belAted happy birthday, not Belted... Stupid computer can't spell.

Since we had something like eight straight days of rain and cold (we were calling it Beth weather), and it is now sunny and very warm, the mosquitos can be heard cheering each other on as they hatch. They may fly to Victoria with some of Regina's smaller Great Danes in their claws, just to say ho back to you.

Zen hugs, sleep well, and get thee to the mail box tomorrow.
Neils1

Elizabeth McClung said...

Sorry, I have to go to bed now otherwise trip tomorrow is in peril. I WILL answer every comment, I was just focused for the last two hours on.......DOING POSTCARDS to post in the US (where it is cheaper) - sorry! But thank you for the comments and finding out about all your crafts, please check back Sunday when I WILL have commented on every comment (honest!) - even if I have to dictate it! Thanks again! (PS - with Linda's help I got NINE done!!!)

JaneB said...

Hi Beth,

Linda's present looks wonderful, it was so worth you getting just the right frame.

I loved your description of your postcarding, and how you capture the way that small acts done fully can be so loving and important. I spend ages on Christmas shopping, even though it's a busy time of year, for the same sort of reason - I find looking for just the right gift, card and paper to be a way to express how I feel about my friends even when they're a long way away and I might not see them in the flesh for years.

Do you know the poem "The Divine Office of the Kitchen"? It includes the lines 'Remind me of the things I need/Not just to save the stairs/But so that I may perfectly/Lay tables into prayers'. And that last little phrase is a tag that for me sums up the process you describe - that if all I can do, or if the thing which needs doing, is lay a table or send a postcard, I can still do it lovingly and well and meaningfully.

I knit, and embroider, and occasionally paint or draw or dabble with clay, and bake - none of them particularly well, but the process is wonderfully soothing, and if I'm making something for a specific person I try to think of them with each stitch - it's almost like a rosary, I guess (though as a non-conformist protestant by upbringing and inclination, I've never actually used one).

SharonMV said...

Forgot to mention the other crafts I like to do. I used to weave - love color & texture of yarns. When I became ill & that was too much for me ,I started doing embroidery. Taught myself mostly from books & magazines. I hoping to start stitching again soon. And I do a little beading. and when I have a garden I dry & press flowers which I use in making cards. You can see some of my work - click on my name & there is a link to my photo page.

I find it very meditative & relaxing, but also exciting & creative - depends on what part of the project your working on. When i stitch someone else's design, I always chose my own colors in threads & fabric. You get to look at & touch lovely,colorful threads of cotton or silk. And I get a sense of accomplishment - something I don't have very often. Also there's always something new to learn, a new stitch or technique. Embroidery also gives a sense of participating in a tradition, a tradition followed by many women over the long years.

Sharon

Elizabeth McClung said...

Sharon: I use mostly Marvy Maatchables Ink Pad from California because on postcard paper they dry quickly and leave a good imprint.

I have seen at least one of your cards and your cards really are amazing. I can identify with what you are saying, often when I read someone has problems or has a sick family member, I send a post card because I want them to feel remembered in a tactile way, but also I want to DO something, and this is all I can do. I am glad your handmade card and bookmark made such an impact that you got a letter back, that must have been a good day.

Sory it is too hot. Oh the fever. It sounds like you are having a "hell weeek" I hope the temperature drops, the fever breaks and you get some real rest.

Yanub: Well it does sometimes take as LONG as the tea ceremony, and I do get frustrated when I screw part of it up! I am really glad the frame turned out well, I try to get her something she would never want to get herself, and so getting the right frame, getting it mounted so it can be hung and she can enjoy it is the present; so it doesn't lanquish in the "well, we can't afford to do that right now" pile.

Zephyr: Well, we see a postcard of a big breasted girl and think, "Who would like this....? Hmmmm, now if we send it to X, they are married so that might not work out right, and I dunno about person R? Hey, why not send it to Zephyr, she like girls, and it pretty open about being sexualy attracted to people."

I will try for a bit more variety, I didn't realize I had sent you more than one of them.

Abi: Well, you start off with a big tease...what you must make for me?

Yes, the giving gifts does give satisfaction, but I think only some people really get into it, I have since I was a little tyke, and never really outgrew it. So yeah, I can see what you mean.

I agree, sometimes between the idea and the antipation there is a wee bit of drudgery which makes you go, "Why am I doing this again?" or "What am I DOING?" but once it is sent off, it is all worth it.

Neil: Thanks, I can't help but add things to what I send by I also know my limitations and a postcard is about the limit of what I can do!

Oh, well, the story about the person getting back pity, sometimes you send out a gift and you can't control how that is recieved, everyone on my list has signed up so at least they theoretically WANT a postcard.

Mmmm, you like spiders, oh good, I was worried my spider stickers would go to waste - oddly they look very real and can be put OVER things so if your postcard has multiple shoe marks on it, it will be the post office people trying to kill the spider.

As for the print the original conversation went like this:

Linda: This sure is nice

Me: Do you like it?

Linda: We can't afford it, I am already getting so much paper

Me: Do you like it.

Linda: It sure is pretty

Me (to the store owner, pointing to sheet of washi and to the counter): If I can have a sheet, you can have a sheet.

Gaina: Yeah, Linda really did choose the perfect frame. I did look at the English Stamp company but, um, they don't do the level of detail and artistry which I need. Nothing personal, I know exactly what I am looking for, and they were unable to provide it. Sorry. Thanks for the recommendation though, I did check out the website but confirmed that I had checked them already.

Cheryl: Yes, please bring stud finder as we will need two nails for the heavy glass. It did turn out very nice indeed. Wow, Linda did a quilt with her grandmother, how far along are you? You do a LOT of crafts, I didn't know about the driftwood carving, you forgot to mention the MANY, MANY BOXES of stamps you have (and I don't even get a look?).

Lene: Well, like you, I try to find something that matches the spirit and what I know about the person. People who knit really seem to enjoy it, I tried it but never got that zen state which people talk about. But I sorry that was taken away by, er, reality (life?)? I think writing can be an art, though I rarely do it, same with photography. You however are pretty consistant...and have DEADLINES!

Carapace: Well, I think handwriting CAN be a work of art, I think mine is not, which I blame entirely on the chicken pox which I got during the two weeks we learned cursive in the fourth grade.

Griffen and Sabine, I have thier books,that's a high compliment! How do I align, well mostly when I do a card I have a solid background like a book which won't take imprint, then a piece of paper under that if my hand suddenly goes off or I screw up, which happens, which is why it is, Bring everything to lap to sort, take everything and put on chair next to me, work on card, bring everything back to get sticker put it all back again, etc.

Veralidaine: I did think about doing the 1000 cranes which is a common tradition in Japan for creating a personal miracle but my hands are to clumsy for origami now. And the postcards, I actually don't keep count, so I must not be doing it for that, besides, I wouldn't know what to wish for except for many like all the debt of one reader to go away or for the combined diseases of another to disappear. I get all I need from making and sending them, well not ALL I need, some feedback from 10% is nice.

Hemp Jewelry? Now I am curious....

Cheryl: that makes sense, How long have you been making things and giving them away? And have you ever had regret a year or two on that one or two particular pieces aren't with you any more.

Judith: I actually saw some ones in the US made out of wood that were like 1/4 inch THICK, a CHUNK of wood, so I like the delicacy of the Kakunodate postcard.

I think that I wanted perfection in all thing and now one thing being disabled has taught me is that doing something knowing it is never going to be super-duper perfect can be enjoyable too and doesn't make me less of a person, so I am glad about that. I am glad you like the process too.

Now I am curious how it will turn out too.

Dawn: Yes, very clever, I just hate bullet points and guess someone somewhere taught me the a), b) , c) system to make people ancipate the rest of the arguement, discussion, etc. Only sometimes I put a) and then get so distracted that is all there is, people must finish reading going, "What happened to b)?"

Linda said she liked the post because it let her know how I think when I do the postcards as well. I do reading but I read at a reduced speed of 200 pages an hour, Linda reads much slower (so, no I never use bookmarks becuase I read the book in one go). Linda might though.

Victor: Well, the postcards are both high art and sometimes very LOW humor (like certain hello kitty stickers). Wow, where did Collette pick up the plumbing skills?

You don't just cook, you REALLY cook. I made a soup from scratch when I was learning to cook at like 14 or 15 and I noticed that my family ate it down with no noticable difference from what comes in a can, thus ended my time doing cooking from scratch.

I think the editing is something that is not only your profession but what you enjoy (and you get to be a perfectionist?).

Miss 376: Yes, likely true, but if I was on a factory postcard line during the day, I would probably do cross stitch, the joy of the product would have been beaten out of me.

RachelCreative: I think you are pretty obsessed about the MANY things you already do (your camera, your photos, your drawing, your writing, poetry).

I am glad that what I wanted to get across did, it is always good to hear that when creating something, thank you.

Maggie: Well, I SAW your grass and I have every intension of cutting it, it is just I can't get Cheryl into the spirit of the thing, and sneaking over by myself doesn't seem to be an option since now the whole Coho knows me as "oxygen and seizure girl". I would like to send a postcard to Sparky, he probably feels a bit left out so this way I can include him as part of your life. Wow, you quilt too - maybe you and cheryl and Linda can do one of those "make a quilt in like a day" things. Wow, refinish furniture, that's pretty useful too - so you look at things and see what you want it to be?

Neil: Yeah, probably LA, took three years to walk by three guys on the sidewalk instead of crossing over because they weren't going to stab or shoot me (I lived in a not so good neighborhood - at the grocery store they had to guards in bulletproof vests with SHOTGUNS standing outside the store to ensure people could safely get into the grocery store and out again).

Well, I better get going on my own poi thing, the problem with summer is having to practice outside (that and I spent all my money on stamps either postage or wood block).

Sorry about the 'squito's - ug, the dread of summer. One thing I LOVE about Victoria, no ticks and no blood suckers (well other than government agencies and human ones).

JaneB: Thanks, that's how I feel, sometimes it is better to get the "right" thing than the cheaper thing, besides this is 20 or 30 years of enjoyment we are talking about.

So, does this mean that your Xmas shopping has already started. I find that when I have people on the brain, like individuals, it becomes easier to see what is right for them, some however are harder to shop for than others (and some are darn near impossible).

Wow, paint and clay - I have up on one in 2nd grade and the other in my 20's. I was too obsessed with perfection and if I couldn't be the best, I didn't want to do it, I now think that was a kind of immature attitude, but very me and very 20 year old.

I too try to focus on the person.

Sharonmv: people who like yarn REALLY seem to like yarn. It must get in the blood!

I am with you, I like changing up designs so it says, "This is mine" and the tradition thing is okay, as long as we don't go back to like 12th century (on the other hand, many tapastry's are historical documents, telling us the lives of the period, so while men fought and schemed, the women were historians with thier stitches

Zephyr said...

Heh, I will never complain about hot anime chick postcards. Although, boy-on-boy anime postcards are also nice. ;)