Thursday, July 12, 2007

Sad searches and the comment "Not all incest is bad"

I thought I had gotten used to the strange searches which bring people to my blog like “Victoria Ass Parade” or “hello kitty nude water fight” to “female masturbation pick up lines.” Come the weekend the real nuts come out to play as “nude boys” and “how to find child porn” somehow end up reading my blog.

Hey according to Mingle2 my blog gets an NC-17 movie rating simply Online Datingbecause recent posts have sex (12), porn (8), pain (6), death (5), sexy (4), penis (2) and knife (1). I say, “Hey what about ‘masturbation (39) and lesbian (127)’?”. I mean, I am shocked, shocked!

And I tolerate the fact that creepy sex people are visiting my site mostly because THEY don’t comment. At least until today when someone who googled “Need Incest” and ended up at blog entry: “Incest, child abuse and a need for heroes” decided to comment (anonymously) “Sorry folk, but not all incest is bad. I think it is worse to have a stupid parent that divorces your dad and makes you live in poverty than a father that wants to have sex with you. Not all incest is abuse.”

Not all incest is abuse? Because if your Dad doesn’t get sex with you (or your sibling), he may leave? Non consensual sex from a father to his child is the LESSER of two evils? Because “not all incest is bad.” This isn’t like wine, where a bit is good for you and too much is bad. It is incest. I don’t want a poll on here to see how many people think incest is bad because I will tell you: incest=bad. Okay, any further people looking for your incest needs; if you think incest is “okay” or “alright in some circumstances” go to a counselor. If you are the one committing incest and believe that; go to the police (or go to a counselor and then the police). It is not all right, it is not good, it is not healthy or happy. The choice of poverty or incest is one tens to hundreds of thousands of children and teens have made when they run away from home to GET AWAY FROM INCEST. I hope I have made myself clear.

7 comments:

kathz said...

What a worrying and troubled person. There may be a case to allow consesnual incest between adults - there have been a couple of cases about siblings who met as adults and I see no case for sending them to prison - but that's plainly not what the comments are about. It's not possible to tell whether the person who posted has abused, has experienced abuse or just has a strange interest in the subject - but it's plainly someone who has serious problems and ought to seek help.

Daniel, the Guy in the Desert said...

Hmm, do you think that your commenter is carrying her resentment toward her mother just a little bit TOO far?
Makes one wonder why Mom left in the first place, doesn't it?
My ex-wife's family had incest problems all through it, siblings and parents. It was a horror story.

Wendryn said...

People really disturb me sometimes. Ick.

Cooper said...

Oh! So THAT's why there is a visitor to the SIA website every seven minutes...24 hours a day...seven days a week.....

Sober @ Sundown said...

My blog was rated "X". In my mind, my blog is very clean and revolves around the program. It is simply inconceivable that others would not think the same.....

I had my very first saber lesson last night. It was very exciting.

Elizabeth McClung said...

Kathz: my feeling was a person who abuse had altered their perception - they are clearly speaking of adult/minor incest. Yes troubled.

Daniel - All I know is that incest is like a psychological axe - it makes great misunderstanding about the self and others.

Wendy: ditto

Cooper: double ditto (not available in Canada for 1-800 service)

Sober: congrats on the sabre - why X - and why didn't I get rated X?

belledame222 said...

yipe.

i wonder if that was an MRA--apparently Warren Farrell spouted the line about not all incest is abuse (don't ask how i know; i've gotten into some -really- stupid conversations lately). that plus the whole butbutbut the child NEEDS a FATHER thing.